Relations, Maturity and Reality

I am writing this at the age of 21 but I am happy to write it.

When we are born, we have two kinds of relationships in this world. First, the blood relations that are related to us since birth, and second, the relationships that we form ourselves after birth.
Every relationship is important for us. But until the time when we are not mature. When we mature we understand that not every relationship and every person has the same feelings for us as we do for them because by time and situation people change. some for good but some for bad.

This is a bitter truth about relationships. A reality that we all face at some point in our lives. Sometimes our blood even breaks us very badly.

So I suggest that you meet people, take your time and give them time too, observe them, and then make your opinion about whether they are right for you or not.
You may not have many people at the end of your life. But they love you, care about you, you could trust them. What could be better than that?

I know what you are thinking β€œWho thinks so much, just go with the flow” but this attitude of yours can lead to a dangerous situation.
life is not a roller coaster ride. if you want a quality life then you should have to sit and think about all of this. when you are sorted about something you face fewer problems. So be sorted in your life. we don’t have so much time to waste.

Let me remind you that maturity is not related to age. When you are mature, you know what is right for you and what is wrong for you. Relationships are a very emotional part of our life but sometimes you have to make some difficult decisions.

Well, I pray that such situations never come in your life and you live a very happy life but if you face these situations then make your decision carefully.

Have a good life πŸ™‚πŸ˜Š

TheSparklingWords | Anushree Vaishnav


22 thoughts on “Relations, Maturity and Reality

  1. That’s a bitter truth about every relationships. To be honest relationships always hurts.. Aap bus dost hi bane rahiye .. Usme hi zindagi hai, this relationships always sucks . Humne bhi mehsoos kiya h ise. Bus ab sambhal chuke h.. Matlab mature h hum ab. 😊
    And yeah Phir se kahunga, aap such me bahoot hi khoobsurat aur ruhani likhti h. Din-b-din aapki lekhni ke hum kayal hote ja rahe hai.
    Aapka priye pathak -Sameer.

    Liked by 2 people

  2. You’re so right! Change is the only constant thing so even if people change, I think we must work it out together, because the core of a person remains, more or less, the same. So talking to our friend or partner about it, and understanding their reasons is what will make it work. πŸ™Œ

    Liked by 2 people

  3. “Who thinks so much? Just go with the flow.” And later regret. This post is so thoughtful. Wise words from you. You have learnt a lot at the age of just 21. πŸ™‚. Your posts are really good.

    Liked by 1 person

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s